Saturday, November 19, 2016

The Danish Girl

The Danish Girl
by David Ebershoff
Penguin Books, 2000, ebook 494 pages, Fiction

This novel is an unusual, emotional, and deeply moving love story inspired by the lives of the Danish painters Einar and Greta Wegener at the turn of the twentieth century. This tender portrait of marriage and change starts with a simple favor asked by a wife of her husband in the paint studio, which sets off a course of transformation and realization that neither could have predicted. The Danish Girl tells the poignant story of Lili Elbe, a pioneer in transgender history, and those she was close with as they each navigate their loyalties, ambitions, and desires.

Having no transgender people in my immediate circles I was very curious how Ebershoff would approach this interesting and poignant story. I was wrapped up in the lush and vivid descriptions of Denmark, California and Paris and was so impressed with the writing and structure. This book makes you think and feel things about situations that seem almost incomprehensible for a normal life. What was surprising to me is the medical advancements that were available so much earlier than I expected. The various relationships and love triangles are deeply moving and emotional. This is only loosely based on the life of Lili Elbe, so it should not be read as biography, but rather as fiction. I am glad for fiction books like this that explore transgender issues (and some of the other harder topics of modern life) that often get twisted with politics, religion, and social concerns, rather than focusing on the individuals whose lives are directly affected. This book is intended for a more mature audience both with themes and writing style.

LP

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

God, please bless America

I am a daughter of God, a sister, a friend, a daughter of two loving parents, a feminist, a librarian, a yoga teacher, a relief society teacher, art enthusiast, an avid learner, an American citizen and supporter of The Constitution. Here are a few things that I believe.

I believe:

  • Every citizen should vote for who they think would make the best president, not casting a vote for someone because they hate the other candidate options
  • God loves all his children and gave them the gift of agency to choose between right and wrong. Spiritual laws and natural laws are indisputable and we will be held accountable for how we apply them. 
  • All people are created equal no matter race, gender, religion, party affiliation, economic status, or sexual orientation. No matter who they are each person should be treated with respect and dignity because they are a fellow human. 
  • Racism in any form is unacceptable. Many so called Christians have dominated the world with evil and hate, Grouping people based on race and then demeaning or threatening that group is not right. I am the kind of person that will hide those who need refuge in my home, God forbid it ever comes to that. 
  • Sexism is any form is completely wrong. Men and women are created equally and yet men continue to control, abuse, and manipulate women and their bodies. Any sort of violence against women is a form of sexism. Rape, domestic abuse, assault, groping, molesting or even suggesting or joking about these horrific acts is blatant sexism. Silent bystanders reinforce this misogynistic culture. Ingrained misogyny is in our culture, language and relationships and needs to be stopped via education and awareness on an individual and national level. 
  • America was originally founded as a refuge for those wanting freedoms that were not granted in their previous homes. This should continue to be a place of safe gathering and acceptance. The statue of Liberty says "Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!" America should carefully and abundantly help refugees and those seeking immigration. 
  • Abortion is morally wrong, however there are exceptions to this. If the child is a product of rape, incest, or is a life-threatening or emotionally-threatening problem to the mother then abortion is admissible. In these cases a woman should have safe, healthy and affordable access to medical professionals for the abortion procedures. 
  • Each person has right to their own body. Rape and sexual assault are direct violation of this. Each woman needs to be able to choose what happens with her body. Many women choose to have abortions as a form of birth control and this is not appropriate. Birth control access and education needs to be available to every woman as to prevent abortions being used as such.  
  • America should be leading the way in climate change reforms. Climate change has been an issue for decades. Only recently did the US join the squad of world leaders trying to do something about it. We are meant to be stewards of this earth and our individual bodies. 
  • I believe in the right to bear arms, mostly. If someone knows how to safely operate and defend themselves and others with a gun then that's great for them. I don't want that kind of responsibility for myself. I am not comfortable shooting a gun. It's high time for universal background checks and closing loopholes that let the wrong people carry a gun. Sometime those wrong people with a gun are mentally ill. America needs to become much more aware and helpful in treating people with mental illnesses. Those people should not have access to guns, nor should anyone with terrorist ties.
  • There needs to be reform and careful examination of our law enforcement officers. There have been too many shootings of black citizens to sweep this under the rug. Speaking out for civil rights is a wonderful thing; however, when those protests become violent it is not accomplishing anything, only stirring up more evil. 
  • Education reform in America is needed across the board. We are undoubtedly the dumbest world power.  Kids are not given enough play and curious time, instead focusing on standardized tests. Common core is NOT the answer to fix the school system. We need to pay our teachers like we pay our celebrities and sports figures. They are shaping lives and building the future leaders of America. Take the focus away from tests and jobs and instead emphasize more on character building, exploration, analytical thought and apply it into all the subjects. Any emphasis on languages, the arts and music has been completely lost. Proper brain development needs all of it. Having a balance between school, rest and play is very important. The bulk of a child's formal learning should be in the classroom and at home, NOT in doing homework. 
  • ISIS and terrorism are real and scary parts of this modern world. America needs to humble themselves to get along with other countries so that we can strategically fight against ISIS.
  • There needs to be less taxes for lower and middle classes. Big corporations shouldn't have sway with laws, lobbyists or political parties. Wealthy individuals and corporations should be taxed much heavier. New jobs need to be created around building infrastructure and clean energy.
  • America was established with the help of God and I believe we as a nation need to come back to trusting in God. As individuals we need to strive for this in our families and then hopefully it can trickle up to the nation as a whole. God, please bless America. We need all the help we can get right now. 



Principles of Feminist Critique


1Gender is historically contingent (located in time)
2Gender is culturally specific (located in material practices and specific places
3Gender is an interpretation of what female and male bodies mean in relation to what we believe about the world (our philosophy)
4There is a cultural reciprocity between gender practices and perceptions of biology, and there is a tendency to forget that a fact is both observed and interpreted.
5Frequently even though a gender practice has been discarded, the perspective it created on "nature" can be difficult to eliminate
6Our systems of social policy and cultural practice reflect a tendency to conserve the ideological result of practices that are not longer apparent. 
7We let competing ideologies undermine healthful practices 
8Sexual inequality is the single most prevalent form of inequality in the world. the majority of those in poverty, in dire need of improved health care without access to education, without access to political rights are women
9Open dialogue allows for the free flow of the material out of which all social policy and political practice is derived: ideas. 

Developed by Brandie Siegfried, BYU English and Women's Studies Professor
from Women Studies 422: Feminist Theory

5 Biographies of Badass Women

#Whatireallyreallywant is for everyone to read about these important women! In no particular order or preference, each tells of a woman you should be aware of and knowledgeable about. #girlpower




Frida Kahlo was a famous surrealist and modern artist and should be remembered as more than just the wife of another famous Mexican artist. She is renowned for her inventive self-portraits and examining the tougher aspects of life through her paintings. This compilation is a first of it’s kind- an illustrated journal complete with Frida’s own thoughts, poems, dreams, sketches, self portraits and more. It covers the last ten years of her life from 1944-1954, in a captivating and sometimes haunting, sometimes witty way. Giving perspective on her turbulent relationship with Diego, living with a debilitating handicap and the ensuing surgeries, and insights on her creative process, this auto biography shines with Frida’s own hand.



The Diary of Frida Kahlo: An Intimate Self-Portrait, Frida Kahlo




Catherine the Great
was the most renowned and longest-ruling female leader of Russia, reigning from 1762- 1796. She came to power after her husband was assassinated and while under her rule Russia became one of the great powers of Europe. Balancing the government, foreign policy, cultural development, domestic rebellion, wars, and welfare of the Russian people were all in her hands. This book accurately captures the life of this great women, giving details to her personal relationships, her well developed philosophical mind, and her successes and struggles in ruling the vast country of Russia.

Catherine the Great: Portrait of a Woman, Robert K. Massie





Marie Sklodowska Curie was distinguished physicist and chemist who pioneered research on radioactivity (a term that she coined!). She was the first woman to receive the Nobel Peace Prize, the only woman to win it twice, and the only person to win twice in multiple sciences.  She discovered two elements- polonium and radium. She was the first woman to become a professor at the University of Paris and became the first women to be entombed on her own merits in the Pantheon of Paris. This book is a visual journey through Marie’s life- collages, photos, clippings, drawings- giving a compelling narrative to the fascinating scientific significance of her work, while mixing in romance and intrigue.

Radioactive: Marie & Pierre Curie: A Tale of Love and Fallout, Lauren Redniss




Cleopatra
has been imagined for centuries by poets, artists and historians alike in attempt to convey her beauty, wealth, power and importance. She was the last acting pharaoh of the Ptolemaic dynasty founded by Alexander the Great. She was married twice to her brothers but her lovers- Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony place her as the most influential woman of the age.  This book separates fact from fiction to reveal in rich detail the dazzling life of this magnetic queen.

Cleopatra: A Life, Stacy Schiff





Malala Yousafzai is a human rights activist known for her advocacy for education and women.  In her  province of Pakistan the local Taliban sometimes banned girls from attending school. Her family runs a chain of schools in that region and on October 9, 2012 a gunman boarded her school bus, asked for her name and shot her. After intensive recovery Malala is thriving and continues her advocacy against this kind of violence and discrimination. She was named one of TIME magazine’s most influential people in the world, she was the youngest winner of the Nobel Peace prize and she continues to speak at international conventions. This is her powerful story of a family uprooted by global terrorism, the fight for girl’s education, and her beliefs that have already changed the world.


I Am Malala: The Girl Who Stood Up for Education and Was Shot by the Taliban, Malala Yousafzai

















How to raise strong girls: The Feminist Fiction Starter Guide

(how to rid the world of ingrained and internalized misogyny)

Do you want to raise strong, smart, ambitious and independent girls? Do you want to be the kind of person who makes a difference in the world? READ. Read about women! Read from the Feminist Fiction Starter Guide.

As the oldest child of a typical Mormon family, growing up in Colorado, I never grew up with the word feminist. Then in college at BYU I heard the word thrown around as an almost ‘dirty’ word. It wasn’t until years later in graduate program at BYU that I came to understand feminist to mean someone who shares a common goal: to define, establish and achieve equal political economic, personal and social rights for women. And then I realized I AM a feminist. A staunch one at that. I had been raised to be a strong, independent woman who would think and act for herself, defending human rights for all and wanting others to have the same realization- feminism is a good thing.

So what shaped me all those years leading up to this epiphany? READING. Reading wonderful fiction that had female protagonists who got real stuff done. They overcame hard things, helped others who were down, they learned about boys, dating and heartbreak, they grew into their bodies over those awkward teenage years, and they conquered and achieved.

THE RED TENT by Anita Diamant- This book gave me a love for the old testament. I like the female perspective on a story that I had read and heard only from the biblical (male) perspective. In a wonderful blend of historical and fiction Diamant gives a voice to Dinah, the one and only daughter in the famous 12 tribes of Israel family.




ANNE OF GREEN GABLES LM Montgomery- Anne is one of those headstrong fiery characters (plus she has great red hair!) who lives life to the fullest. She never lets social convention or the ‘norms’ dictate her behavior. She is smart and pursues her education so intently that she competes for top of the class with the boys. She won’t let boys bully her and she is a loyal and devoted friend.





MISTS OF AVALON by Marion Zimmer Bradley- This is the King Arthur story told from the powerful and passionate women in his life. Morganne is the sister that gets a bad rap, or is forgotten in other king arthur stories, but here- she reigns as the best Camelot has to offer. The complex web of women at this time is told with their plots for power, love and magical/mystical influences.




ELLA ENCHANTED by Gale Carson Levine- I am definitely the kind of person who doesn’t like being told what to do, so I felt for Ella as she was cursed with the gift of obedience. Because of her goodness and perseverance she is able to overcome the spell and finds true love (the ideal!).




THE HELP by Kathryn Stockett- I have always had a soft spot in my heart for those suffering from civil rights injustices. I could really connect to the various women’s stories and I wanted redemption and recourse for those wrongs against black women in the south. I think young girls need to recognize the issue of race in America and how to not be narrow minded or discriminate.


THE HUNGER GAMES by Suzanne Collins- I love how Katniss is the protector of her family. I am also the oldest child and I would like to imagine I could begin a war all because I wanted to protect my little sister from a brutal death game. Katniss is bold and yet flawed and we get to see her grow, overcome obstacles, and accept the harder facts of life. She made me want to be a strong fighter but also someone who lived life passionately.  




ISLAND OF THE BLUE DOLPHINS by Scott O'Dell- This is a survival story at it’s heart, making Karana a real inspiration to girls. She was left behind by her tribe on their island and is forced to build shelter, find food, make weapons and fight her enemies, alone. This is a coming of age story giving insight to another culture and teaching some practical survival skills.



LITTLE WOMEN by Louisa May Alcott- There is such a range of women in this book that a young reader can learn from. Jo is my personal favorite, but there are so many life choices that each March sister faces that teach girls about growing up. You can be like Amy and aspire to have many wealthy beaus, or you could be like Meg and marry a good honest man, or you can be like Jo and seek a career and teaching job. This classic is a reflection on American life during the time of the Civil War and helps readers see options for the way they approach the world and relationships.




Others that I haven’t personally read but come highly recommended in this category:
  • Princess Academy by Shannon Hale
  • Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See
  • Buddha in the Attic by Julia Otsuka
  • The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood
  • Harriet the Spy Louise Fitshugh
  • Are you there God? It's Me, Margaret by Judy Blume
  • Uglies by Scott Westfeld
  • The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
  • Walk two Moons by Sharon Creech